So you show
It cannot be simple the order, your law or a justification of that you did not sleep, and tomorrow to you for work.
So you show the weakness.
The teenager wants to be strong therefore will not carry out your rules which resulted you in weakness.
Explain to him that you very much love it, miss and worry.
You so would like before going to bed it to see together to exchange news, validly to listen to him and to be glad to its successes.
It is not necessary to try to find out, where it was and than was engaged.
Show respect for its independent decision most to tell only that will want.
Even if he will tell nothing to you, thank for that considered your request and agreed to divide hour before going to bed with you.
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